PROCESS OF MEDIUMSHIP

Mediumship is a interesting process considering we have little to no control on the outcome of each session.

Each reading is unique and has it's own special and personal earmarkings.

No , psychic medium reading is alike and you will not experience it in the same way even twice.

Mediums are as almost as varied as their readings. Each carrying their own unique style into the work.

But there are some constants in mediumship that you should be made aware of.

VALIDATION : True mediumship seeks validation from the spirits that come through.

There are many ways for a spirit to validate who they are to you. You, being the person that is recieving the reading and desireing the contact.

In mediumship circles the person or persons being read for are know as the sitter or sitters .
You, as the sitter have a very special job during a reading .

By your personal knowledge or through the personal knowledge of others known to the spirit you can validate or invalidate certain information that comes froth as the result of a medium reading .

Some of this information can be validated during the course of a reading

While some information may require validation after the reading with friends or other family members whom are privy to this certain info.

Here are some examples of ways in which a spirit may try to validate who they are :

Sometimes the medium will get the names very clearly or just the initial. Also the spirit's personality traits may be described.

Most spirits are willing to show how they passed to the medium .

Often spirits will give important dates of reference to further validate themselves.

They have been known to mention other family members. Sometimes calling them by name .

They have also been known to mention a recent event even if small in your current life or other family members lifes to show awareness of the here and now and their spiritual presence at the event.

They have been known to show past events.

They have even been known show their favorite flower , book , song or any favorite from their life or even yours.

And just to surprise us. They have even been known to find some really unique way of validating themselves that we probly have not even thought of yet.

All in all . the spirit may choose to use any of the above methods or even none of them.

But they will find a way to validate themselves.

Sometimes a sitter will hold out for a specific validation that they asked the spirit for in advance.

Sometimes this method works but also alot of times it doesn't .

That is why it is very important not to place any preconcieved expectations on the reading .

If you get your special validation great and if you do not , just know that it is not allways possible.

That is just the way things are !

It is a good idea during a medium reading to take notes or even tape record the reading.

Because you will want some kind of record of information recieved. And you will not want to depend on memory to help you sort out the information later .

One reason is because medium readings can have a overwelming effect initially and you would most likely forget more than you remembered.

Although medium readings have become a more common practice these days because of such mainline psychic names as John Edward , Slyvia Browne , James Van Praagh .

Please do not dismiss the specialness of having this wonderful form of contact.

A medium reading is and always should be considered a special event in a person's life.

Because within this most wonderful process we call psychic mediumship you recieve the most important validation of all .

YOU ARE AN ETERNAL SPIRIT !

Namaste,
Deborah Anna